ZERO EXPECTATION

I wrote this on my other blog almost 5 months ago, it’s a very cliche simple thing, that maybe so many people already realize, but they just playing don’t care, now I’d like to share it here too, because another tragedy had happened that reminds me of this thing. Eh! No! Not just one tragedy with certain people, a few different tragedies, with so many people, I got involved in some of it, but the other some it’s just other people’s life stories that I heard these past days. I’m not playing innocent, it’s just that I thought about this since pretty much long time ago, I don’t know if I play it well on my life, but at least I’m trying to, so maybe if there are more people trying to do it too then the world will ease up a little. Or at least people will be more grateful of others who care about them. Or maybe not at all, it’s up to you who read it. So here it is:

If someone is being so nice to you for so long, you should not take advantage of it. Do you think you really can treat people as you like and they just accept it like that? Just because they’ve stayed for so long with you, for years maybe, or even as long as you live, that does not mean they cannot easily leave you when they had enough with your attitude. Believe me, they can leave you. And don’t forget, if someone who had stayed for so long like that then choose to leave you, that could mean that other people who just get know you will also do the same to you one day, they just don’t know it yet, because the problem is you. And when that happen, you’ll be alone. So stop thinking that people should understand you, stop thinking that people who love you that much will stand by your side till death do you apart however you treat them (because there is never any guarantee of those things), stop thinking that just because you want to be free so you can freely treat people as you like, don’t you forget that every person in this world can act as “free” as you, and they can do anything they like to you? THEY CAN, because maybe, maybe, for all this time, they just holding back to you, hoping you will change, hoping you’ll get better, but when they got bored of waiting and hoping, they’ll leave you or do other things worse than leaving. Why nowadays what people have in mind is “the one who loves me that much (bestfriends, lover, family) would always understand me no matter what i do, if not, they’re not my bestfriends/lover/family” THAT’S JUST WRONG! AND RUDE! And also, stop thinking that you don’t care if people leave you because they can’t understand you, ah come on! You really think you can be alone, or you’ll find other people who do understand you? Man, that just happened in movies.

If so many people had leave you, that means the new people you meet will do the same to you another day.

So before you regret anything, start controlling your self, especially how you behave to other people (that you think will stay beside you no matter what). The term “will-stay-beside-you-no-matter-what” should be erased, because there is nothing like that kind of guarantee in today’s world. Do-oh, what are you thinking? I know this is so cliche, but why now I found so many people forget about this cliche thing.

Day - 31